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My marriage is ending because of my husband's affair nine months ago. I have come to realize that my reactions both prior to the affair and after it was discovered have been a major facilitator of the end of the marriage. It has taken me months of hard, soul searching work to address myself and my own sense of spirituality given all of the pain. Only recently have I begun to act rather than react. Infedility occurs in more marriages than those that end in divorce. I would encourage partners to try to take themselves out of the situation and move towards acting from the heart rather than reacting. Not all marriages can be saved, but there is no chance at all with reactions only. You loose yourself in reactions and you loose your spiritual power. May God bless those who are going through this painful struggle.
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Fan
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 172
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I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope you have friends and family that can help you through the rough times. If not you can PM me and I would be glad to assist you in anyway I can to help.
Stay strong, Later M8TR ![]() |
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Newbie - Celebrity
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 1
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U ACTIN LIKE U NEVER WANTED 2 DO THE SAME THING IF HIS WAZ NOT THE BEST.JUST GET OVER IT AND TRY 2 GET HIM BACK!!!!!!!!!!!! GET AN IDEA AND THINK! |
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Celebrity Stand In
Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 54
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I feel sorry for you ,but I have to admit here that after reading the post I really come to know about the meanings of action and reaction.I hope you will get true life partner soon and wish you best of luck for the rest of your life.
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Newbie - Celebrity
Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 5
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[QUOTE=Ashley Faison]
U ACTIN LIKE U NEVER WANTED 2 DO THE SAME THING IF HIS WAZ NOT THE BEST.JUST GET OVER IT AND TRY 2 GET HIM BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!
HOLY COW I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT YOU JUST SAID THAT. IF HE'S HURT HER IN THE PAST, THEN THE TRUST IS GONE. THERE IS NO GETTING IT BACK. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. AND IF SHE WAS EVER TO GET WITH HIM AGAIN, SHE WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO LOOK AT HIM WITH THE SAME LOVING AND CARING FACE THAT THEY HAD WHEN THEY FIRST GOT HITCHED. LOOK IF ITS NOT TO BE THEN, ITS NOT TO BE. NO ONE CAN EVER BE THE SAME THERE WOULD ALWAYS BE THAT SUSPICION IN THE EYES.GET AN IDEA AND THINK! |
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