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ASHTON Kutcher knew Demi Moore was ‘The One’ when he realized he could hate her.

The Valentines Day star — who married the actress four years ago — believes the key to a lasting relationship is being able to put up with another person’s bad habits and still loving them for their flaws.

“I think one thing sort of defines it which is, it’s not how much you love someone when you love them, but it’s how much you love them when you hate them,” he told Parade magazine.

“It’s when you’re in that moment where you cannot stand what the person you’re with is doing, but you still love them. When things get tough it’s not what you say, it’s about what you do.”

Ashton, 31, also claimed good manners are the key to being a good partner, and says he learned how to treat women properly from a young age.

“My brother had a heart transplant when he was 13, and my parents were at the hospital a lot so I went and I stayed at a friend’s house,” he said.

“And his mother was this really wonderful, wonderful woman that sort of taught me a bunch of things like table manners and how to treat a woman — pulling out her chair, opening the door for her.

“So while my brother was in the hospital, I basically learned etiquette and how to use it when you’re dating a woman.”

Source showbizspy.com